Clemence de Limburg

Escape

Gitty is a 23-year-old woman who grew up in the ultra-orthodox world of the Satmar Jewish community in Kiryas Joel, north of New York City. Being that her grandparents are New York liberal Jews who have never been part of the Satmar community, Gitty grew up rather ambivalent about her religious path. At 17, she was married through a matchmaker to a young man from the Satmar community, and shortly afterwards gave birth to Esther Miriam. Soon Gitty’s desire for freedom became apparent. Eventually, this led her to leave the community and her husband, taking her daughter with her. But the Satmars, who do not approve of Gitty’s secular lifestyle, took Esther Miriam back, to be raised in their way. Today Gitty is fighting for custody of her daughter. She struggles with with Hasidic requirements to visit Esther Miriam. Her trips back to Kyrias Joel are often tense and painful.

Gitty and her daughter Esther Miriam are having tuna salad on toast at Gitty's mother's house in Kiryas Joel.
  
Gitty's mother tightens Gitty's shirt with a pin in Kiryas Joel. Orthodox practice in the Satmar community calls for women to wear buttoned up collar.
  
Gitty gets ready to go for dinner in her apartment in Brooklyn.
     
  
Gitty's mother preparing dinner in her house in Kiryas Joel.
  
Gitty in her bedroom in Brooklyn.
  
Gitty with her grandparents in their Washington Height's apartment.
     
  
Gitty and her grandmother looking at her grandparent's wedding photo album in their Washington Height's apartment.
  
Gitty prepares ice cream for her daughter Esther Miriam in the kitchen of her mother in Kiryas Joel.
  
Gitty with her daughter, her mother and her stepbrother in Kiryas Joel.
     
  
Gitt on the bus from Brooklyn to Kiryas Joel.  Orthodox practice requires the separation of men and women on the bus.
  
Gitty is playing with her daughter Esther Miriam at a friend's house in Monsey. Esther Miriam enjoys playing with Barbie dolls and other toys that are forbidden by Orthodox practice in the Satmar community because they are considered too sexual.
  
Gitty and her daughter at a friend's house in Monsey. "Mummy loves you as high as the sky" Gitty says.
     
  
Gitty transferring her daughter Esther Miriam to her ex-husband in Monsey.